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Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Long Live Christmas!

Question.

Is it bad if I just recently finished decorating my house for Christmas?

 Honestly, I even feel a little silly writing this post because it seems as if everyone was finished with Christmas on December 26th, eagerly gained back all of their square footage from taking down holiday decor that very day, and they are now waiting to ring in the New Year and kick some butt in 2015. I am ALL for that, but at the moment, I'm happily sitting by our fireplace while the embers slowly burn out after a cozy day on which my family and I finally celebrated Christmas.

I never mind traveling for the holidays, but I also love hosting and getting my house ready for guests! This Christmas was a bit different for us. We usually celebrate with my husband's family before Christmas and tend to travel or be with mine on Christmas day and several days after that. However, due to other family situations, we weren't able to be with my side of the family until the 29th. I was bummed it wouldn't be closer to Christmas, but I was still incredibly grateful that they were coming! I'm one of those sentimental types (as if you couldn't already tell from my previous posts) and I love holiday traditions! It was hard to think of celebrating so seemingly "far away" from Christmas Day itself.

During the Christmas holiday, I tend to take off a couple of weeks from work because I never know if we'll be traveling, hosting, or who knows what. With how all of our family gatherings were arranging themselves, I began to grow excited at actually having a big chunk of time to fully decorate my house, bake yummy treats, plan dates to catch up with friends, make, wrap, and mail presents, and simply relax and get my house ready for our family! I always think I can do it all (before Christmas Eve) and still have time to fully enjoy every moment--and truth be told, every year is an epic fail.

Not that I didn't watch Elf and Prancer or spend sweet time with my husband and our loved ones, but no matter how late I stayed up, there was always one more errand to run, one more (or several things) to make, or one more thing I had to regretfully remove from the ultimate "before Christmas" to-do list because I simply didn't have the time to make it happen. I am a perfectionist with an awful sense of timing when it comes to decorating and planning for Christmas. Just awful.

Christmas truly snuck up on me this year! I love Fall so I never decorate before Thanksgiving, but I try to start soon after and I love giving each item its place and having my home feel so incredibly cozy for more than a month! I know people like to decorate early and props to those who are way more organized than myself, but I feel like there are SO many people packing up before December is out the door! For a girl who once long ago left her tree up until March (I agree, that was a bit much--but it was not me who was sad they had no Christmas tree in their living room when we had that freak blizzard in 2013!), I just can't do away with Christmas until at least sometime in January! Now that we have a "grown up" tree, we have scattered our smaller trees throughout the house, giving each guest their own unique Christmas tree. I just want everyone to feel loved and cozy. It's too fun to think of and create each and every detail as I decorate every corner of the house, but I do realize Christmas itself is not about all of that.

 Now that our week with my family is in full swing and my vacation is winding down, I feel exhausted! Who's with me? I absolutely love Christmas and I adore my family and our crazy fits of laughter, but in some ways, it hasn't felt entirely like Christmas. Perhaps it's due in part to the fact that our traditions were delayed a bit and everyone else in the world has seemingly moved on, and probably due to the fact that I'm not an elf and my busy little hands couldn't keep up with the crazy expectations I put on myself for the holiday. Silly little human.

 I guess it's ridiculous to think or be surprised that it doesn't feel like Christmas. Honestly, I think some part of Christmas will never "feel like" Christmas. For most people, the anticipation is greater than the actual holiday. I want to be grateful for the present day in which I receive the opportunity to live and serve, all while remembering that there is a far more majestic reason for celebrating each season and every day. He is the reason we can anticipate an even greater day to come. The weary (exhausted) world can rejoice because of Him.

"I sometimes think we expect too much of Christmas Day. We try to crowd into it the long arrears of kindliness and humanity of the whole year. As for me, I like to take my Christmas a little at a time, all through the year. And thus I drift along into the holidays-let them overtake me unexpectedly-waking up some fine morning and suddenly saying to myself: 'Why this is Christmas Day!'" 

--Ray Baker 


Merry Christmas, friends.

 And hey, good news:
 We ARE celebrating New Years Eve on time!

 Be sure to check back soon for an insanely good recipe (full of brown sugar goodness) to take with you into the new year! Even my clean eating readers can probably doctor it up to their liking!







Thursday, December 4, 2014

Sin in Every City

So here we are in Vegas again. After booking this trip a few months back, I realized that I have never blogged about our past two experiences with the city! Are you surprised? Good, me neither.

I'm a bit bummed because I had to get a new phone in November of 2013 (due to my last one getting stolen--long story), and therefore, I've lost a lot of pictures! So unfortunately, unless you are my friend on Instagram, you won't get to see any pictures from our previous trips to Vegas! My point? Instagram awaits you.

Vegas is normally not my first choice for a get away (I think beach, country, small town, loveable big city), but when your husband has to go there for business and invites you along because it's an inexpensive getaway, you go! His company does not pay my way, but seriously, a getaway (or as the British like to call it--"holiday") for two at the expense of one cheap airline ticket and a few lattes is a pretty good deal! Plus, the fact that Southwest allows two free bags and flies you over a beautiful landscape as you arrive doesn't hurt the matter whatsoever. Hoover Dam, anyone? :)

When people find out you're going with your husband on a business trip, they generally want to find out where you're going. However, when you say "Vegas", you tend to get a random mixture of responses. Most people are genuinely excited for you or have been there themselves, but then there are a few subtle reactions that are all smiles on the outside, but seem to disapprove under the surface. Maybe I'm reading into things, but I also know that there are those kind of people out there regardless if they will ever admit it. Yes, granted, Las Vegas is known as the infamous "Sin City". Yes, there is an insane amount of gambling and drinking that happens all around. Yes, there have been porn cards handed out at every corner and strewn all over the sidewalks. And yes, there are even locals dressed in dirty costumes trying to be the best Hello Kitty and Elmo in the world. Um...they aren't.

They say what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. But you know what? It doesn't. Is Las Vegas--excuse me, "Sin City", really that much different than the street corner in the downtown area of where you live? Is is that much different than the cluster of high end bars and clubs in your city--or even the lone bar down the road? Is it any different than the casinos and billboards that you've driven by on your way to work? Are the porn cards any different than secretly stashed magazines or the erotic audio book playing in your car? Are the shows any different than some of the movies or TV shows you watch? Is it any different than the depths of my own heart? The truth is, the town and city that we each currently live in is a "sin city". No one city or town (or heart) is exempt. Thank the LORD for salvation, truth, and grace.

Las Vegas and all of it's sin and craziness is simply just illuminated in lights. Some may view it as a place like Pleasure Island that Pinocchio went to with Lampwick or a town like Sodom and Gomorrah. And yes, some people do desire those kinds of towns and seemingly thrive on the electricity of them. Side note: this is not meant to be a judgmental post whatsoever. My husband and I are believers, but for those who don't know or care to know the Lord like that, our personal standards and choices will be different. Vegas is also known as "the city of lights", and ironically, as believers, we've been called to be a light to the world, a city set on a hill (Matthew 5:14), and to honor our bodies as the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). We feel convicted to honor the Lord and set an example while handling situations and atmospheres with the right perspective and with a loving heart, but that doesn't mean that we're the ultimate judge and can't extend grace and love others well. We're definitely not perfect, and we've learned that in order for others to see Jesus, you start building relationships where others are at physically and personally. Judgment for the sake of cynicism and legalism gets you nowhere. You learn what works, you re-adjust, you don't compromise, but you love well and share truth, all while extending grace.

That being said, for us personally, we have no problem being set in an environment like Vegas, but I do think that there is a difference between being surrounded and immersing yourselves in even the tiniest way. Truth is, we've been to Vegas three times now. We choose not to drink or gamble, but do you know what we've enjoyed doing? We take opportunities to strike up conversations with Vegas store clerks, people at the bus stops, as well as other business men from Craig's company who were alone and by themselves on the trip. Sure, they all hung out with each other and had their share of crazy nights and definitely don't mind telling you about them, but we interacted and had conversations with them during other parts of the day that they're probably starving for at home. Regardless if they even realize that or not. You can tell. We all want someone to talk to and someone who is genuinely interested and willing to listen, ask questions, and not shudder every time a cuss word is used.

The people that handed the porn cards out were another story. They're also called smut peddlers or card slappers (you can hear them continually slapping their cards to get your attention as you walk past). I was about to write that if you ever go to Vegas, you cannot escape them. Apparently, that is not entirely true! As we were walking back to our hotel on Tuesday night, we suddenly noticed how clean the sidewalks were and then realized that we hadn't seen a single peddler, homeless person, or street performer! We wondered if they had been completely banned. We're located at the Mandalay Bay this time and have not noticed anybody like that down on that end of the strip. However, when we ventured out to the middle of the strip last night, we realized that there are still plenty of those people out and about, but thankfully, it didn't seem as intense as it has been in years past.

The previous times that we've come to Vegas, the card holders were on every single street corner. Sure, it's aggravating and awful, but we averted our eyes and walked right past their outstretched hands. However, I did get mad when some of the men didn't respect the fact that I'm holding my husband's hand and literally reach past my face to try and give my husband a card. Uh, hold up, wait a minute, yo. (There may have been a time or two that it was too much and I admit that I lifted my hand to push their hands away). 

Friends warned me of these people that handed out the cards. I, being naive I suppose, thought that they were men--all of them. Men dressed in sharp suits, wearing hats and sunglasses, and looking well, pretty much like a pimp. Guys, it was a perfect movie scene in my head and now is a good time to tell you I'm extremely gullible and naive at times. As reality would have it, these people handing out cards were all dressed in orange sweatshirts that had the call number of their "business" plastered on their fronts and backs. What really saddened me were the women that were handing these cards out as well. I couldn't believe it the first time I noticed them! At first I was shocked, but then I thought...I wonder if they have to do this job? They weren't necessarily smiling as they were handing out the cards. Sure, some of them probably don't care and some may actually like it because it's an easy job, but I can't help but think that there may be a few women (and even men) who feel trapped in that business. How many families or relatives are forced into a business because it pays well and it's a job? I do believe we all have a choice (some with more drastic cons than we'd like) as well as a lack of humility to ask for help in some cases, but I can understand not feeling like you have a choice at all.

Since I saw those women, I started to see everything differently. I didn't want to treat them as faceless people. Honestly, those cards are very rarely taken, much less stay in one's pocket or wallet. You used to see a million littering the ground between every single bus stop. It's easy to get angry at the people handing them out, being forceful, being brazen, but it wasn't until I saw the quiet women also handing them out that I realized that there may be several different stories behind those eyes. I made it a point to smile at them and shake my head instead of disregarding them like they weren't there at all. Point is, I want to see faces this time. I want to be sharp and aware of my surroundings, but in doing so, I want to remember that everyone has a story and sometimes people just need someone to notice them, no matter what they may be doing, and to look at them with a smile.

Alright, don't get me wrong. Vegas does have its happy corners and it can be very fun--especially now that its sidewalks are a bit cleaner and more visitor friendly! There are still plenty of things left on our Vegas bucket list, but listed below are a few of our favorite eateries, shops to visit, as well as some fun things to do! :)

Oh my goodness. Just GO. Agh. Go go go! Again, we refrain from seeing the more sensual side of cirque (Zumanity), but there are plenty of other shows available! We've seen Mystère and Zarkana and both are very imaginative and adorable. I cannot imagine the amount of time that each performer spends in training. Their movements are flawless and so beautiful, and each show is bound to be absolutely breathtaking!  


If you're not sure of what show you want to see, Yelp and Trip Advisor are always great tools to use for checking reviews! Keep in mind that most shows can be pretty expensive! Check the hotel where you're staying to see if a show takes place in their theatre and if they might offer a show package. If not, there are certain Las Vegas websites [www.vegas.com & www.bestofvegas.com] that offer really great deals on the "simpler" shows. Unfortunately, more majestic productions like Le Reve - The Dream and "O" will generally be the most expensive!

And yes, there are plenty of crazy shows on the strip, but the family friendly ones are not just limited to Cirque shows! Penn and Teller, Blue Man Group, and Jabbawockeez are some great options to name a few!

This is a famous tourist spot to visit, not only because the fountain display and music are beautiful and magnificent, but also because it was featured at the end of the movie Ocean's 11. You can watch that scene here! I have to tell you about our first time being in Vegas and watching the fountains!
While waiting for the fountains to start, we heard a commotion behind us. We saw a guy running and looking over his shoulder. It seemed that he had taken something and we realized that he was being chased buy a guy carrying a big knife and wearing a tight shirt and what looked like parachute pants! Haha! He was yelling at the first guy to stop and then stopped himself because he knew he couldn't catch him. He then stabbed a tree out of frustration! I think it was then that he realized his surroundings and apologized saying, "SORRY! I had permission!!". Haha! Oh man. I wasn't afraid, but just thought, wow. Welcome to Vegas.


These shops are located within The Venetian! Each hotel on the strip has its own decor and layout and you'll find that their walkways, ceilings, and walls (not to mention the rooms) mirror the history and beauty of the style they want to emulate or of a particular country or city (Italy, Paris, Rome, New York City, etc.).

 Most of the shops in this area are very high end and expensive, but it's fun to walk around! Plus, there is a moat in the middle of some of the shops and main eateries where you can take gondola rides or simply be serenaded by a singing gondolier as you walk by. One store I loved checking out was the Thomas Kinkade Gallery! I do love his artistry, style, and attention to detail, but for my personal taste, most of it is a bit old fashioned. However, he has created so many Disney paintings that I adore! With each canvas, no matter the visible storyline, he has intricately hidden other Disney characters (from totally different Disney movies) within the scene. Some are completely minute and others may be bigger. It is SO cool! It's like a Where's Waldo without Waldo. You're not allowed to take pictures of the canvases and prints in the store so I had to find the images below on Google and create a collage. If you ever have the chance, definitely check out his Disney artwork! If you have all the money in the world, you should go here and buy one of each piece!  



This mall is part of Caesars Palace and carries stores that are slightly more familiar and more budget friendly than the Grand Canal Shoppes! Craig's favorite place to go is H&M (3 stories!) while my favorites all have to do with makeup: Inglot, Mac, and Sephora. I'm glad you're not surprised. :)


Another mall, I know. However, this is where Forever XXI located! I know most people have gone to a Forever XXI, but this one has a photo booth located in its lower level! Need I say more? Ok, fine. This mall also features popular shops like Francesca's, Free People, Urban Outfitters, Anthropologie, AND for my stationary loving heart, Sanrio!



We LOVE this place! This is one of Gordon Ramsay's restaurants, and being that we're huge fans of the show Masterchef and Gordon Ramsay, we always find the time to go! His menu is simple, affordable, and intriguing. We've been twice now, and both times, I've gotten the Euro Burger with goat cheese--so good! And those truffle parmesan fries...you might think you need/want your own, but one is enough to share between two people! 


This place is so fun! Their decor and ordering system reminds us of Chipotle, but obviously, it's pizza! Get in line, choose your pizza from their yummy menu (all thin crust, plus a gluten free option) or build your own! Either way, your pizza is built right in front of you and then thrown into their brick oven! About 10 minutes later, you can sit down and enjoy your very own personal pizza!

Serendipity 3

 Have you seen the movie Serendipity? A storyline containing silly fate, New York, Christmas, chocolate, Kate Beckinsale, John Cusack, Jeremy Piven, and Molly Shannon--just watch the trailer! You're welcome. :) In the movie, Kate Beckinsale and John Cusack visit a unique little restaurant called Serendipity 3 which is famous for their "frrrozen" hot chocolate. New York is the original location of this quirky restaurant, but I was extremely excited to see that they had added a Las Vegas location! And yes, you can easily make the delicious concoction at home as well, but it's always fun to live out a scene from a movie instead. 




I forgot to mention that they also have cake--a yummy variety to choose from and HUGE slices.



Crepes, coffee, artisan chocolate (a sweet nod to Christopher Elbow), macarons, gelato, and more chocolate. Oh, and a spectacular holiday display of the Grinch created out of over 200lbs of fondant and chocolate. Shall I continue? (The rest of my words consist of chocolate)


There are Starbucks located on most every corner around the Las Vegas strip, but we'll admit it, we're coffee snobs so finding really good coffee can be challenging! That's where Yelp comes in handy yet again! Sambalatte is located just outside the Monte Carlo hotel, and honestly, it's been perfectly quiet each time I've visited due in part that most people would rather hang out in front of a slot machine than the inside of a coffee shop. Total win for me! I don't know why, but I'm so surprised I found such a cute and cozy coffee shop filled with coffee bean burlap sacks and beautiful Christmas trees! Plus, their music selection is awesome! I'm not sure what's playing today, but it reminds me of a toned down soundtrack version of Zarkana mixed in with Christmas music. And I love it. Yesterday it was The Grinch soundtrack. :)

I guess one more important thing to include is that Sambalatte closes early during the holiday season! I just got kicked out because they close at the dreadfully early hour of 5pm. So much for that second iced mocha!

I hope this helps you create your own adventures in Vegas someday! :)

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

Real Men Play Dress Up: Part 2

I know Halloween is over and Thanksgiving is TOMORROW and sadly becoming lost in the race for Christmas.

I don't mean to prolong Halloween, but we've had many people comment on and ask about Craig's costume that I figured I would add a "Part 2" to my last post. :)

The following images were our reference photos:






Before Halloween, Craig surprised me with tickets to see Alice in Wonderland, the ballet, held at the Kauffman Center for the Performing Arts. The ballet was absolutely beautiful and I loved the creativity they put into the production! The music was captivating and the dancers' movements were so fluid, making their careers seem so effortless! The hooka smoking caterpillar was my most favorite! Gosh, she was beautiful, and the music and her dancing were truly hypnotizing. I always walk away from seeing a ballet or musical production thinking I should've joined a company like that! The world is a stage.

Anyways, I've also seen random parts of Disney's 1951 Alice in Wonderland and I've seen Tim Burton's Alice in Wonderland once. Both are very fun, however, my most FAVORITE version of Alice in Wonderland is this one! It is a made for TV movie musical made in 1985, and it is amAzing! The Jabberwocky is creepy, it's the right amount of cheesy, the songs are fun, and come on...Ringo Starr, Scott Baio, and John Stamos (Uncle Jesse, anyone?) are part of the cast! Put the tea on and choose your favorite tea cup because you must sit and enjoy one of my favorite childhood memories! It's like ABC's Once Upon A Time...just not.


-2014-
Alice and The Mad Hatter






OUTFIT DETAILS

Like I stated previously in my last post, you can find costumes that look incredibly similar to what a character wore, but more often than not, they can be pricey and take forever to arrive at your doorstep! I found my dress (apron included) for a cheap price on eBay, and I was extremely lucky that the seller was located within the United States--which meant that the dress would arrive well before Halloween. Although the dress emulated the 1950s Alice, I bought a curly wig made by Disney to look like Tim Burton's version of Alice. To complete my outfit, I bought white tights from Target and found the perfect black shoes at a thrift store--complete with a strap across the foot and 2 sizes too small. ;) Oh, and I bleached my eyebrows. ;) 

Craig's costume was an entirely different story! Due to his work and school schedule, it left him with zero time to search for costume items. Lucky for him, I always try to be a wife to the rescue! I had already bought his hat (with wig attached) and his eyebrows from eBay, but the rest of his outfit was pretty much a hodge podge of thrift store, closet, and creativity. I hit the thrift store on my own, all the while referencing the picture of Johnny Depp! I knew I wouldn't find a jacket completely like his, but I still wanted something with a weird pattern that could still come off Mad Hatter-esque. We're almost the same size so I tried the jacket on myself. It was extremely tight in the arms, but I figured Craig could shove his muscles through and deal with any lack of circulation. ;) The only other items I found to be useful from the thrift store were a polka dotted scarf and some scrap material I could use to make his hand wraps. I didn't want to waste time running to a ton of other thrift stores so I came home and searched through his closet hoping to find the rest of the clothing items he needed! The Mad Hatter is all about being mixing prints and being unmatched--remember what I said in my previous post: use your own flair and creativity! I found a teal colored striped shirt (nixing the pink dress shirt Johnny Depp wore), black wool striped dress pants, a striped black vest, and brown dress shoes. Perfect. The Mad Hatter would not be running around naked.

Unfortunately, it was then that I realized that maybe our idea was too crazy. This costume had too many details--the ribbons, the hat pins, the sash of thread, the lace cuffs, not to mention the makeup! For just staying home and handing out candy, this was getting a bit ridiculous! But it would be ridiculously fun. So I went to Walmart and found some wide, colorful ribbon on clearance, striped socks (2 different pairs), Heat Bond and safety pins (because I don't sew), 5 twelve-packs of cheap spools of thread, and a peacock feather, long needles, and a button to finish off the hat from eBay. My last stop was Hobby Lobby where I bought some lace for the cuffs of the jacket and two more buttons to use as hat pins. I was FINALLY done gathering items for the details of the costume, but it was far from complete. Be sure to read the captions below for how the rest of his costume came together!


The Disney hat was very similar to the one Johnny Depp wore, but the attachments it came with were a bit cheesy. I kept the 10/6 card, pinned a more realistic peacock feather on the right side and made hat pins out of random buttons hot glued to long needles.

Because I don't sew, I used Heat Bond and an iron to secure two layers of lace together under each cuff and safety pinned the ends in place. I then used the 3 pack of gold buttons (shown above) and hot glued them to the outside of the cuffs. Remember, hot glue is to no-sew crafty people like duct tape is to MacGyver.

Johnny Depp did not wear fingerless gloves, but instead wrapped his hands below his knuckles with fabric. We secured the scrap material (found at the thrift store) around Craig's hands and pinned it in place with safety pins. We ran out of time to rough his hands up with white paint, but he kept to the details by wearing a couple of my rings, a thimble, and bandaging his thumb. I know you see the spools of thread! To see how to create your own sash using spools of thread click here! :)

I bought three different colors of ribbon and cut them the same length. I then attached them with safety pins under the flaps of the pockets. To create the capri pants, I rolled the hems up inwardly and safety pinned them into place.


In order to create this Mad Hatter look, my handsome husband shaved and lightly moisturized his face. I then applied Ben Nye's cream makeup in white all over his face and lightly down his neck (I left his ears alone since his wig would be covering his ears). Referencing a picture of Johnny Depp as the Mad Hatter, I used colorful eyeshadows and applied it accordingly onto the eyelids, down the sides of the nose, and blended it in and around the hollows of the cheeks. For the lashes, a white primer mascara would work perfectly for this look, but unfortunately, the one I had bought looked a little sketchy when I took it out of its box. Sad day! I had to resort to using a Q-Tip dipped in the white cream makeup from Ben Nye and gently apply that to the lashes. We opted not to do contacts since he isn't fond of them, so to finish off his eye area, I applied Spirit Gum (also from Ben Nye) to his natural eyebrows in order to secure the Mad Hatter eyebrows in place (I would've trimmed the eyebrows first, but we ran out of time). For his lips, I outlined his natural shape using a lip pencil from Essence in Red Blush, blended that into the lip, and then used a lip stain from NYC in Champagne Stain to fill in the entire lip giving it a natural and matte look. Lastly, we used a black wax from the Halloween store called Tooth Out to create his tooth gap. And there you have it!


 
 Guys. We love Halloween more and more each year. Putting our costumes together may seem like a lot to go through, but we seriously have so much fun. We love seeing each and every kid come to our door and their reactions crack us up (although these batch of kids STILL need a brush up on their classics). Their parents may look at us weird for dressing up with no party to go to and happily handing out candy to their kids, but that's what we love to do. Parties mean nothing when there are cowboys, a vending machine (seriously, best costume), Elsas, and zombies to tend to. :)

As always, we hope we can at least inspire you for next year! It's never too early to think about your costumes--seriously, that procrastination is killer. Thank you all for the sweet comments and questions about our 2014 costumes! We're just happy that we could bring so many smiles to your sweet faces! We can't stop now! :)

See you in 2015...

 And now, you may continue preparing your tables and your hearts for Thanksgiving. :) 


Friday, October 24, 2014

Real Men Play Dress Up

Well, my husband plays dress up. Willingly, I should add. In fact, a lot of our Halloween costumes have been his idea. He is just cool like that and my habit of procrastination thanks him. :)

Neither of us love the guts and gore of Halloween, but we definitely love to dress up and love figuring out the details of our costumes each year. Halloween is just around the corner so I thought it would be fun to create a post featuring our costumes ideas from 2009-2013. Bear with me, it's a long post, but full of fun pictures and helpful tips! We hope to inspire your own creativity!

Our Halloween tale begins with one of our first phone call conversations prior to our first date in August of 2009. During our random "friend" phone call, he asked if I knew what I was going to be for our church's college group costume party. Please. He was talking to someone who has the best intentions to think of her costume ahead of time, but then procrastinates until the morning of October 31st and winds up dressing up like some weird little lollipop person that doesn't even exist! Great makeup, though. Anyways, I had no idea. It wasn't even September yet! Knowing that I liked Johnny Cash and the movie Walk the Line, he randomly mentioned that he was thinking about dressing up as Johnny Cash. OMG, my heart skipped a beat--he needed a June Carter Cash! But I kept my cool and tried to respond nonchalantly. I mean, please. His idea wasn't amazing or anything. ;) He then proceeded to ask if I would like to be June. Agh! I knew he liked me! What a friend. How could I say no?

Knowing what I did about June Carter Cash, I was going to need a dress, voluminous hair, and a guitar-strapped man who liked to wear black. Even though I knew some about June Carter, I find that when dressing up like a character or icon of any sort, it's helpful to have a reference photo. I like to pay attention to every detail of what they look like, how they're dressed, etc.

The following images were our reference photos for Johnny and June. :)




 So on the hunt I went! 

When needing a costume, take inventory of anything you might already have and make a list of items you will need to complete your look. More than likely, you probably won't be able to 100% replicate the outfit/look unless you want to spend a ton of money! No worries! This is where you get to use your own flair and creativity! :) When I don't have the right items, I love to borrow from a friend or hit up thrift stores and take my time to search through the variety! You may not always hit the jackpot, but even finding that one particular item for your outfit can be helpful--and even if it's not an exact match, it will be more authentic looking than a tacky, cheaply made item from those Halloween City stores that randomly pop up this time of year!


-2009-
Johnny and June



Don't mind the cat. It was our prize--and lovingly donated to a white elephant exchange. :)
 
OUTFIT DETAILS

I found my dress and short cardigan at a thrift store and paired it with a necklace and black slingback heels that I already owned.

Craig created his suit from black items he already had hanging in his closet and paired it with a plastic guitar he retrieved from his parents' home. His hair was a bit shorter than Johnny's, but we did our best to slick it back with a Dapper Dan like substance (I truly don't even remember, I just know we used a lot of it).



The following year was another college costume party complete with a bonfire! At this point, Craig and I were dating, but I was still set in my ways of procrastination so I was fully relying on him to figure out our 2010 costumes! ;) He randomly suggested that we should be Bonnie and Clyde. Those names were very familiar, but I didn't know too much about them at the time, so we decided to do our research together.

The image below is a photo of the real Bonnie and Clyde


 Cute, right?
Without reading about them first, we continued our research by watching the movie Bonnie and Clyde starring Warren Beatty and Faye Dunaway.

The photo below was used as a film poster and also served as our reference for our costumes.


Wow.

This couple had issues.

Well, technically, they weren't even a couple. Just very interesting friends. Apparently, our research provided us with the information that they traveled through the Midwest during the Great Depression, robbing various places and leaving killed police officers and civilians in their wake. They continued their rampage until they were ambushed and killed by law officers in Louisiana.

 Seriously, just watch the end of the movie. It was morbid.

Despite the images we still can't get out of our head, we proceeded with our plans!


-2010-
Bonnie and Clyde


 Before you continue reading, PLEASE take note of the ironically giant oompa loompa in the background and the most hilarious Randy Savage Slim Jim guy. Those two make this picture so fantastic and I laugh every time I see it! It's great to have fun and funny friends! 

OUTFIT DETAILS

Finding items that resembled Faye Dunaway's outfit was harder than I thought! Everything except my beret (which I already owned) came from the thrift store, but as you can tell from the picture above, I'm sure Bonnie did not wear leg warmers and boots. ;) My hair was longer at the time, and I didn't have time to buy a wig, so I pinned the nape of my hair under, letting the top layers spill over to achieve a bob-like effect. 

 Craig's entire costume came from his closet (once again) with his hat being his grandpa's. The only thing that needed attention were the bottom of his pant legs which my mom was sweet enough to hem for him!

 His gun was a pellet gun that he already owned (with which he may or may not have killed a varmint) and my gun came from Walmart's toy department and was spray painted black. And yes, as you can tell, we're expert gun holders.



 -2011-
Epic Fail
2011 was our first Halloween being married. I was SO excited to dress up again, but to our dismay, Halloween fell on a Monday which happened to be a school night for Craig. what.A.bummer. So unfortunately, there was no dress up involved, but I invited a friend over and we carved minion pumpkins...and I'm pretty sure we ate brownies.



The following year rolled around and I was determined to not let another year go by without dressing up! Craig came up with such a fun idea to be Mary Poppins and her trusty, loveable sidekick, Bert! Now that Pinterest was in full swing, we found excellent inspiration!

The following images were our reference photos



Thank you, cute Pinterest couple!

 I'm sure most everyone has seen the movie, Mary Poppins, starring Dick Van Dyke and Julie Andrews, but if you haven't, I don't even want to hear it--just go watch it. It is magical and will make you want to eat sugar.


-2012-
Mary Poppins and Bert









OUTFIT DETAILS

By the way, we're all about the Halloween bathroom selfies. It's kinda our thing now.

We definitely hit up the thrift stores for these costume looks! As you can tell, not everything is a perfect match to the reference photos (ex: no flowers on my hat, boots instead of heels, etc.), but that's ok! Like I said before, make your costume your own!

Everything except my hat, red belt, white gloves, and the umbrella were found at a thrift store. And darn it, that white collared shirt was hard to find! Thank the Lord for thrift stores that cater towards the elderly. ;) There were also touches of red that were important for this look: the bow and the lips.

For my bow, I used a cool Painters pen from Walmart.


For my red lips, I used NYC's Smooch Proof Lip Stain in Rock on Ruby.
 
Craig went all out for his costume!
He went to the same "elderly" thrift store and found his pants, shirt, ascot, and beret. He then used a few of my dark eyeshadows to create the ash on his face and arms. He fashioned his broomstick/chimney sweep out of a broom, dowel rods, electrical tape, and black spray paint, using hot glue to hold everything together! He's so crafty. I think he was very proud of that! ;)



2013 was my favorite year by far! I mean, Mary Poppins and Bert were fun, but the tables turned! Despite my continued procrastination, I was the one who decided our costumes--can you believe it?! The Little Mermaid and Prince Eric were to make their debut!

Because there are multiple ways you can dress up as Ariel (ex: purple shells and green fins, shipwreck dress, pink princess dress, blue date dress, wedding dress), I wanted to pick one outfit that was modest but not overly intricate.

The following were our reference photos



Thank you, cute Pinterest couple!

As with Mary Poppins, if you haven't seen The Little Mermaid...well, I have no words. Actually, I do. Ariel is the best Disney princess EVER and this classic movie was and still is my absolute FAVORITE! When I was little, I watched it 65 times before I lost count. My obsession is real.


-2013-
The Little Mermaid (Ariel) and Prince Eric








And one last reference picture for kicks



OUTFIT DETAILS

 Like the year of Bonnie and Clyde, my outfit was a little tricky to put together! Pinterest was my huge inspiration, but everyone was either making their blue dresses or buying them! I love to be creative, but sadly, sewing is not in my crafty category. Because there are cool people in the world, there are ways of getting very realistic princess costumes (or any costume for that matter) via Etsy or Ebay, but you will pay money for it! Dresses like Ariel's blue dress were easily $75 and up!

I instead opted to try and recreate the look piece by piece. I had nothing I could use from my closet and my thrift store adventures were coming up empty. I still needed a skirt, a top, a dark midsection, and a wig with a bow! Ebay (and Hobby Lobby for my blue bow) turned out to be my best friend for all of it! It was definitely cheaper to purchase each item individually, but it was tasking trying to search through all of the listings! I won't bore you with all of the details, but if you decide to use Ebay, keep in mind when you're ordering (don't procrastinate!), the location from where your item is shipping, and the time frame it may take to arrive. My white shirt arrived the evening of Halloween! Eeek!

On the flipside, Craig's outfit was very simple. His jeans and white shirt came from his closet, he borrowed black combat boots from a friend, and the red material for his belt came from Hobby Lobby. I'm pretty sure Eric did not have facial scruff, but that's ok. He should've. ;)



So there you have it!
We always have so much fun dressing up as a couple! We pop in a cute Halloween movie, take bathroom selfies, and love to see the reactions and the costumes of the kids who come to our door! Although some of them need a brush up on their classic Disney characters...
 
I hope this post helps to inspire you this Halloween!
Costumes can be anything you want them to be, but it is fun to put a little thought, time, and creativity into them! Always take advantage of pinterest, blogs, and your friend's closet! And if you're reading this thinking all of this is stupid because you're dressing up solo and have no need for a couples costume--no problem! There are quite a few couples costume ideas that can be hacked in half and rocked out in a single fashion. Make it your own and act like Prince Eric never existed!

 You have ONE WEEK left to let your creativity out of the box! Have FUN.

As far as 2014 goes...
What shall we be for this Hallow's Eve?
Come get a treat and you shall see!

Seriously, I don't want to eat the leftover Reeses.